
09-28-2006, 02:26 PM
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 | Super Moderator DD’s Grace | | Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Venus
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ADAB E GUFTUGU - Such kahiey! such bolne mein kabhi jhijak na mehsoos kren.
- Har waqt bolna or bezarurat baten krna waqar or sunjeedgi k khilaf hai.
- Baat narmi or maquliat se kren .QURAN mein hai:
"sab se ziada na gwar awaz gadhe ki awaz hai" - Dusron ki burai na kren , jhoota waada na kren ,kisi ki hansi na urain or baat baat par qasam na khaiey
- Insaf ki baat kahiey .Is mein apna ya apne kisi dost or rishtidar ka nuqsan hi kiun na ho.
"or jab zuban se kuch kaho to insaf ki baat kaho chahe wo tmhara rishtedar hi ho" - Dil joyi ki baat kren ,khure takleef de sakht alfaz na kahiey
- Jahil baton mein uljhana chahen to munasib andaz mein salam kr k rukhsat hojain.
- Mukhatib ko baat achi trhan samjhane k liay mukhatib ke zehn o fikr ko samne rakh kr munasib andaz ikhtiar kren.
- Kabhi kushamad or chaploosi ki baten na kren .apni izzt ka hamesha khyal rakhen.
- Koi kuch pooche to pehle gour se iska sawal sun liajiay,or soch kr jawab dijiay.
- Jis se bhi baat kren ,umer ,mrtabe or isse apne taaluq ka lihaz rakhte huay baat kijiay.
- Doosron ki ziada suniay or khud kum se kum baat kriey.
- Guftugu krte waqt kisi ki traf ishara na kijiay.
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